Ok we need to talk.

Ok we need to talk.

I need some honest feedback from you guys please.

In the past three hours, I’ve been accused of fetishizing gay people, doing this for attention, doing this to get off, and that I’m highlighting the plight of LGBT couples to show off how cool and forward-thinking I am. I’ve been called gross and wrong and all sorts of other bullshit. I’ve been scolded for using random pictures and told writing porn to these stories is wrong, and that saying “text is fictional” is not enough. You know, despite the fact that reblogging and not sourcing is rampant on Tumblr.

Would you please tell me if you feel the same way? Do I need to make some serious changes to this Tumblr? Even though it would severely cut back on available material, do you feel that I shouldn’t use pictures that are impossible to source?

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allbecauseoftheboys:

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darklyspectre:

allbecauseoftheboys:

Oh my god. I am shaking. I am going to cry, as this has become a nightmare. Who took the disclaimer off of this and submitted this to Facebook?? I would like a word with you, thank you very much.

People are sending me messages now that I’m a horrible person for writing this. I just…I don’t know what to do or say anymore. I have never, ever lied to my readers from the beginning. I just stupidly didn’t realize how my post could be taken out of context and now I’m paying for it.

The boys in this post are elyel.tumblr.com.

I am not posting anymore today while I do damage control for this.

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I never heard of your tumblr or whatever.

so you just fucking take some people’s picture of their happiness. and fucking distort their life into your fucking stupid captioning bullshit? 

you fucking asshole maybe you should ask people before using their pictures for your shitty piece of shit tumblr.

Oooookk for the million time here we go.
1) No one has heard of my Tumblr unless you hang out in the part of Tumblr that enjoys gay BDSM, gay porn, male chastity, or pup play.

2) If you look at the original post, the source photo was not elyel. This was the original listed source. Normally, it’s very difficult to trace sources on cute gay pictures because Google Image search will just return a long long list of Tumblrs that reblogged it, blogspot posts, and Pinterest pins. After I started to see some action on dashboard, I spent an hour tracking it down on Google image search and found elyel’s Tumblr and the original source. I put the link in the disclaimer.

3) That cat boyfriends caption post was posted in November. On November 1st, I had 513 followers. That’s not a lot. sorrygirlsisuckcock has over 25,000. Around that time, I’d only get less than 10 likes and only a couple reblogs per post. None of my other posts had been taken out of context and I thought it was really oblivious that my blog was fictional. I read through other caption blogs and none of them put up disclaimers, so I didn’t see the importance. I was naive, I admit. It was only when the post started to blow up that I realized how it would look out of context. By the end of the month, my follower count went up 1,600 as a result of that cat boyfriend clusterfuck.

I did e-mail elyel to explain to them about the screw-up but he didn’t respond.

3) Also, I need to reiterate for the millionth time that in the screenshot going around, the disclaimer has been deleted or cropped out! Anyone who has hung around my blog will know that I’ve been putting up an excessive amount of disclaimers and warning that post is fictional.

4) Also, for reference, I have asked people before to use their photos. I try to avoid original content and selfies, but often times with chastity photos that’s the best stuff. Often, photos have been reposted so many times it’s really fucking hard to find the sources. Also, far no one has said no to being captioned, and no one has ever asked me to take down a caption.

4) You can hate me or call me names or whatever you want, if it makes you feel better. I might be a shitty Tumblr but I happen to like writing porn thank you very much, so I’m sticking around.

Oh, wow. This gets worse and worse. You’re not just a blog that appends fictional out-of-context explanations to other people’s pictures, you’re a porn blog that does that.

Do you honestly not get how creepy and intrusive and downright wrong that is? Yeah, Tumblr is loaded with porn caption blogs that do the same thing. And they are all creepy and intrusive and downright wrong.

If you want to produce original material relating to your fetishes, that’s one thing. If you lack the resources/abilities needed to do so visually so your only contribution is text… well, write text. There’s no reason to non-consensually turn someone else into your fetish object.

Gross.

Gross.

Gross.

Damn, I can’t please everyone can I? You know, you probably find porn to be gross, but there is nothing wrong with porn as long as it’s consenting and safe. People love porn; people love reading porn. Nothing is gonna change that. That said – the more niche you get involving kinks, the harder it is to find writing on that subject. I don’t see what’s wrong with giving people something to read while drinking their morning coffee. What I write is pretty mild compared to some stuff on Tumblr.

That said – have you ever written a story? A full fledged story from start to finish, that involves dynamic characters and an engaging plot that rises, climaxes, and falls? or participated in NaNoWriMo? It’s fucking hard! It’s frustrating as hell too when your story hits a wall.

Sometimes, I just would rather write 500 words instead of 18,000 at once. And although I could just write text, inspiration comes fastest when there’s an image to inspire it. It’s hard for me to pull stories out of thin-air. Most of my captions are basically vignettes inspired by the pictures. It’s also damn good writing practice. Generally, writers are told to write once a day. That’s also fucking hard to enforce, but Tumblr has allowed me to do it!

Although this is getting personal, I want to point out that I don’t get off on my captions. I consider writing these posts to be a job, and I do it happily for free. I post nearly every single day. I have 3,000 readers to please and I have some very happy readers.

I don’t have to please everyone though, and if you don’t follow me, I won’t be offended. You have the right to think I’m gross but you won’t hurt my feelings. I will be however slightly annoyed to be taken out of context, but that can’t be helped I guess.

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elyel:

Lets clear this out! 

Yes, we are the couple from the cat pic, but that story is fake! we didnt write it!
Fortunately the real story is much more happy. Thats why we decided to upload a photo from our families together, our parents and our sisters! We have supportive families that love us and acept us. Is important to us that you share the real story behind this photo because is much more powerful and positive the true story, and we like to spred the positive message that everything always turn out just fine! you dont have to hide this from your family, they just need time to understand. The soon you tell them the soon you stop suffering and the aceptation process begin. 
Love to all of our followers and please share the real story and the positive message that we want to spred!
ElYEl

Aclaremos esto! 

Si! Somos nosotros los de la foto del gato pero esa historia no es real, nosotros no la escribimos!
Afortunadamente la historia real es mucho mas feliz. Es por eso que decidimos subir esta foto de nuestras familias juntos, nuestros padres y hermanas. Tenemos familias que nos apoyan y nos aceptan. Es importante para nosotros que compartas la historia real detrás de esa foto porque es mucho mas poderosa y positiva que la falsa, y queremos esparcir el mensaje positivo de que todo siempre termina saliendo bien! No tenes q esconderles esto a tu familia, ellos solo necesitan tiempo para entenderlo. Mientras mas rápido se los digas mas rápido vas a dejar de sufrir y el proceso de aceptación va a comenzar mas rápido. 
Cariños a todos nuestros seguidores y por favor compartan la historia real y el mensaje positivo que queremos esparcir!
ElyEl

THANK YOU ELyEL! So sorry this happened.

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Damn…he is gorgeous. That is a man. Who is that? Is that our new neighbor? I don’t remember Ms. Kramer moving out or seeing a sign in her yard. Why is he riding her horses around our lake? Maybe he’s ranch help. He’s riding bareback. That pinto has to be taller than 15 hands but, damn, he’s controlling it with just his legs. Not using the reins at all. Wow, look at the way the sweat gleams on his body when the sun hits him the right way. …What the hell is doing?

Is he unzipping his pants? Oh my god, he is not – …he is! He’s masturbating! On horseback! Shit, he doesn’t know I’m watching does he? Wow… look at the size of his pecker. He’s just playing with it so slowly… god I wish he’d do that to me. Stroke…stroke…stroke…a man like that is probably uncut. I bet he fills out a pair of 501s real nice. Big and huge, and shameless about it too. Gosh, I wish this was a romance novel, he’d come right over and-

Shit, what did I come out here for again? Oh yeah, to get the laundry off the line. Well, ma and pa won’t be home for a bit longer now, I think it wouldn’t hurt to watch a little while longer… besides if I move, he might see me. Gosh, I wish I could be a real man like that. Shit, even if I were even half the man he is, I’d just be a welp in his eyes. I’d be his bitch for sure. I wouldn’t be able to say no, he’d just handle me and throw me down like a helpless little calf. Gosh, I feel oddly warm…

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As a child, Kevin always slept with a security blanket. He liked the soft fabric against his face, the reassurance of clutching something close. It protected him from monsters under the bed. After his father left quite suddenly, no one came to read him stories at night. Kevin began to carry the blanket everywhere until the time he hit puberty. His mother let him out of pity. Despite being teased for it, Kevin still kept it in his room even through high school. By college, it was falling apart. Kevin put it in a bag and stored it away, even though he missed it at night.

As a young man, Kevin came out and stared dating. His first serious boyfriend in his latter years of college wasn’t good to him. He slowly isolated Kevin from his friends and wrecked him emotionally, often getting violent with him. Kevin was too scared to leave him, and no matter of rough it got, he felt like he needed someone to cuddle with at night.

Until one day, his boyfriend broke Kevin’s cheek. A male nurse at the hospital became quite fond of his new patient and got a social worker involved to help stop cycle the abuse. It took weeks to pry them apart, and he convinced Kevin to get his boyfriend arrested. Kevin was happy it was over, although he had to sleep alone again. Even though he got counseling, he felt the urge to just find someone – anyone – so he wouldn’t have to be alone at night.

James knew he supposed to have a professional relationship with Kevin, but when Kevin asked to see him outside of the hospital he found himself wanting to go. Kevin was a bit of a mess, but he was sweet. He meant well. He loved to read and appreciated good food. The more they got to know each other, the more James began to worry Kevin was headed down the path of abuse again. He gravitated toward any guy who paid attention to him. He would often plead to James to stay the night, not even to have sex, just to sleep.

It wasn’t long before James pried out of Kevin the reason why he hated sleeping alone, his father, his childhood blanket… and why Kevin hated sex so much, because now he associated it all with his old boyfriend. It was hard for therapy to work for him with these distractions undoing his sessions every time he went to bed or got an erection. James did some research, hours of it matter of fact, and came up with a rather unorthodox solution.

“It’s not a blanket, really…,” he explained to a baffled-looking Kevin. “But you’ll always feel the cage there, like a hand around you at all time, but no one will be able to see it. I have the key to the lock. No one like that asshole will be able to touch you unless I approve that they’re good for you, and you don’t have to worry about anything sex related for a while. This way you can just focus on your therapy and healing. That’s all.”
Kevin needed some time to think about it, but he liked James and the liked the idea of being cared for by James. Despite his apprehension, he went for it, and took to it like a duck to water. When he needed some relief, Kevin just went to James, and James took care of it, like a nurse instead of a boyfriend.

As an adult, Kevin stayed in this sort of odd relationship for two years, the device on and off as the months went by. Various men came and went out of Kevin’s life. He was weaned off therapy. Got a “real” job in an office. Took up kayaking on the weekends. Moved out of an apartment and in with James in a small house in the suburbs.

On one particular beautiful morning out to sea, Kevin had a realization while he watched the sun rise over the horizon. He was looking forward to going home and eating brunch with James. Only James. He didn’t want other men. He wanted James, who had been so patient with him. He went beyond the call of his job title to heal him, who had been single this entire time… he had been waiting hadn’t he? Jeez, how did he not realize it?
Just the thought of James excited him. Kevin put a hand between his legs and felt the metal there so it would calm him down. Now wasn’t the time for masturbation, and gosh, even two years late he still thought the chastity cage was amazing. Kevin didn’t get why more men didn’t have one.

He turned his kayak back to shore, closer to where he’d get cell phone service. He wanted to call James and wake him up, ask him to date him, ask him if they could be serious. He knew James would say yes. After all, James had the key to his cock – why couldn’t it be the key to his heart as well?

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Text is fictional. Here’s a cheesy, sweet chastity post to start off the week. The source of the photo I do not think is the actual source listed on this post. I think it’s from here, a femdom participant on Tumblr.

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gayboykink:

Impressive ropework. <3

I can’t help but imagine how it would be to have this harness tied over a pair of underwear. It’d make some interesting, chastity like confinement… Plus it’s perfectly wearable under clothes in public. ^^

gayboykink sees the positive potential in everything. Imagine brushing against this guy in the grocery store and feeling the ropes under his clothes, then you’d exchange a look and he’d knew you’d know.